- Begin on hands and knees, with shoulders directly over wrists and hips directly over knees.
- Inhale, and slowly arch back (cow), lifting chest up and away from belly and extending tailbone toward ceiling.
- Release feet so tops are resting on floor. Exhale and round lower back up (cat), gently contracting belly. Repeat six times and increase range of motion with each repetition.
Why it works: You strengthen your Kegel muscles—the same ones that contract during orgasm—to control your tailbone as you curl from cat to cow, says Barrett.
2. Better-Sex Yoga Pose: Cobra
- Lie on belly with forehead touching floor. Place palms face-down by middle ribs.
- Draw legs together and stretch them out, pressing tops of feet into floor.
- Press hands down evenly as you draw elbows close to sides of body.
- Using the strength of your back (not the force of your hands), slowly lift chest off floor, rolling shoulders down back. Use arms for support, while muscles of back and legs are responsible for backbend. Hold for 10 to 20 seconds, breathing evenly, and then gently release to floor.
Why it works: ”This is a heart opener pose,” says Barrett. “Love, energy, and breath come from your heart chakra, and this pose indirectly connects to sexual intimacy.” It’s also very energizing; ideal for couples who sometimes feel too wiped out to be sexy.
3. Better-Sex Yoga Pose: Downward-Facing Dog
- Start on all fours with wrists 6 to 12 inches in front of shoulders. Separate knees hip-width apart and curl toes under.
- Pushing evenly into palms, lift knees off floor. Lift your tailbone toward ceiling and push top of thighs back so body looks like an inverted V.
- At first, keep knees bent and heels lifted off floor. Slowly start to straighten knees, but don’t lock them.
- Gently move chest back toward thighs until ears are even with upper arms; don’t let head dangle. Keep hips lifting and push strongly into hands.
Why it works: ”In this posture, your gaze goes nowhere; you should be looking inward, as though you’re closing your eyes, but not,” says Barrett.
Downward dog is a restful pose; doing it well is all about finding peace so it doesn’t feel like hard work. “This is a great presex pose,” Barrett says. “It slowly warms up your body and helps you tune into the moment.”
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4. Better-Sex Yoga Pose: Tree
- Stand with feet hip-width apart and arms at sides. Shift weight onto left foot.
- Bend right knee and use right hand to place right foot on inside of left thigh, just above knee. (If you can’t keep your balance this way, place foot just below the knee or on your ankle.) The right knee opens out to side. Make sure pelvis faces forward.
- Bring hands together in front of chest in prayer position. Fix gaze on a nearby object for balance. Stay here for a full minute, or as long as you can. Slowly lower arms, come back to standing. Repeat on other side.
- Do tree on first side again. This time, bring arms overhead with hands separated shoulder-width apart and palms facing. Visualize arms as a tree’s branches, strong and steady. Repeat pose (with arms overhead) on other side.
Why it works: ”Any balancing pose keeps you focused on one thing at a time,” says Barrett. “It helps slow life down a little.” Tree is particularly good at teaching mindfulness.
5. Better-Sex Yoga Pose: Bound Angle
- In seated position, bring soles of feet together and put hands on ankles.
- Allow knees to relax toward floor, and hinge forward at hips as far as you can. Hold for 10 to 15 breaths.
Why it works: This really heats the groin area and opens the hips for a wider range of motion.
6. Better-Sex Yoga Pose: Plank
- Like the top of a push-up, start on all fours, aligning wrists with shoulders. Spread fingers wide and press entire palm into floor. Avoid collapsing in chest by lifting under armpits.
- Hollow out belly and step feet way back, curling toes under so that thighs lift as you straighten legs.
- Heels, ankles, butt, spine, shoulders, neck, and head should all be in one long line. Check in a mirror if you can.
- Hold for 30 seconds and then rest. Repeat 3 times and build up to 5; try to hold plank for up to a minute as you practice.
Why it works: This confidence-boosting strength pose is the ultimate ab toner—it requires many different core muscles to keep your body in proper form. Not only will you in better shape for a sizzling sex session, you’ll also look and feel better about yourself.
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7. Better-Sex Yoga Pose: Bridge
- Lie on back with knees bent and hip-width apart. Keep feet about 6 inches in front of butt.
- Push hips up toward ceiling.
- Your hands can be flat by sides, or for a deeper stretch, squeeze shoulder blades together and interlace hands, keeping them on mat directly under back.
- Hold for 60 seconds, breathing into the posture.
Why it works: This simple lift really stretches your hip flexors and eases tension.
8. Better-Sex Yoga Pose: Shoulder Stand
- Lie on back with feet flat on floor about hip-width apart, arms along sides of body, palms up.
- Bend knees in toward chest, and roll hips up and over until legs straighten and toes come to floor behind head. Place hands on low back for support, with fingertips facing up.
- Lift right leg toward ceiling, then lift left leg toward ceiling and press (straight) legs into each other. Hold for 3 to 5 breaths.
- Lower hands to floor, palms up. Roll back to floor one vertebra at a time until hips reach floor. Bend knees, place feet on floor.
Why it works:This increases blood flow to your hips and brain—an instant energy boost. “You’re also physically looking at your hips,” says Barrett, a reminder of your body’s many physical and sexual capabilities.
9. Better-Sex Yoga Pose: Savasana
- Lie comfortably on back. Separate arms from body to a 45-degree angle. Palms face up.
- Rest legs apart as wide as feels comfortable, usually 2 to 3 feet apart.
- Allow feet to relax and roll open. Do a mental body scan from top to bottom—are you relaxed? Release all tension from every part of body.
- Lie here for up to 5 minutes, letting entire body calm down.
Why it works: Some people say that savasana, which requires no physical exertion, is actually the hardest yoga pose to master. That’s because you have to completely focus on the present—no errant thoughts allowed.
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